Don't over-complicate it – keep it simple


  • All menus are about balance. There should be a balance of textures, temperatures, colours and flavours across the meal. 
  • If you’re going to make the main course the standout course, go easy on yourself by serving a cold starter and simple ice cream or sorbet for the other courses. Fruit and a cheese plate make the perfect finishing touch. 
  • Vary the techniques you use – don’t follow a salad with another salad, or a braise with another braise, for example.
  • The classical structure of starter, fish, meat, and pudding is tried and tested. You can omit one of the courses if you wish. 
  • Italian antipasti – with lots of different cheeses, meats and vegetables to share – is a simple way to start a meal.
  • Your workload should be balanced too, so don’t pick three labour-intensive courses. 
  • Don’t be experimental. Pick dishes you’ve done before.
  • Don’t be afraid of buying in – just as they do in France and Italy sometimes. Charcuterie, smoked salmon, great bread or a fine apple tart are always impressive. Who cares whether you made it or not? 
  • Do what you can in advance. If you’re stuck in the kitchen all night, you won’t have fun – and nor will your guests.
  • A rich main course should be followed by light, refreshing desserts.
  • A spicy course needs to be balanced out by milder courses or dishes. 
  • Have guests serve themselves from a large dish in the centre of the table. It’s more convivial and it eases the host’s workload.
  • Serve vegetables and side dishes ‘family style’ rather than struggling against the clock to plate all the components like a professional.
  • Keep it simple. If you’re relaxed, your guests will be too. That’s the secret.